You are in control of your House of 420 privacy settings
1) Once logged in, click the Profile tab, then Privacy Settings
Here you can choose your privacy settings including:
* Allow Messages from All Users (default) or Friends Only
* Manually approve friend requests (default) or auto-approve your incoming friend requests
* Manually approve each new comment, auto-approve all comments on your site (default) or allow comments from friends, but approve others.
* Allow basic HTML in comments (default) or only plain text comments on your site
2) click Save Settings
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